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    This Photo Tip is part of a series of photo tips. View the entire list on the Photo Tips page. A big part of creating a good photo is to include in the frame the elements ne [...]

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    A really smart Easter Bunny visits our house. This year he brought our kids KinderGlo Quarter Moon Night Lights (affiliate link) and they are a huge hit with the kids and a [...]

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  • Death by Campfire Goodies
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    As a family, we camp a lot. I really mean a LOT. Sometimes we are away 3 or 4 weekends a month in the summer. Last year in July we were only home for 7 days. Yeah, we camp a [...]

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    Who says the parents teach the kids? I learn the most fascinating lessons from watching my kids do their kid things. Such a wellspring of knowledge to apply to life. I’ [...]

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Jun24
2011
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Friday Photo Tip – Simplify

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This Photo Tip is part of a series of photo tips. View the entire list on the Photo Tips page.

A big part of creating a good photo is to include in the frame the elements necessary to tell the story. Just as important, however, is to eliminate the unnecessary elements that don’t contribute to the subject or the story.

In Fill the Frame, I told you about framing the shot tight around the subject. Tight framing is a good way to simplify the shot and get rid of the elements that don’t contribute to the story. As an example, take a look at the following shots.

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The first shot has all kinds of junk on the left side has nothing to do with the subject and distracts from the story. The second shot gets rid of those elements and keeps the focus on the subject, which makes the story more obvious.

There are other ways to simplify the shot. Take a look at these examples:

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These shots are cute and funny, but that stroller in the background is distracting. Here’s a solution:

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Same shot, same story, but less distraction. The shot was easily simplified by moving the camera, which changed the angle of the shot. The background is now uncluttered and less distracting, which makes a much nicer photo. (He also stood up from the chair, which may have helped out with the clutter.)

Here’s another great example:

JustTheirDad - Photo Bad Frame

The kids decided to decorate the swing with their sidewalk chalk. Notice the distracting elements in the photo. Normally I’d advocate shooting at the kids level for a better camera angle, but in this case shooting down from above created a cleaner shot without all the useless background. The tight crop fixed things up, too:

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Sometimes simply turning the camera to frame the shot vertically instead of horizontally will remove the unnecessary elements, allow a tighter frame, and result in a better photo.

If all else fails, there is absolutely nothing wrong with physically moving elements (usually!) If something in the background or foreground doesn’t contribute to the story and you can’t re-frame or adjust the camera position, move the item to get it out of the shot.

Many of the examples I provide related to a tight frame are actually photos that were cropped in post-processing because I didn’t shoot it tight in the first place (either because I wasn’t paying attention or my lens wouldn’t zoom far enough.) Don’t be afraid to crop your images after you shoot them. Ideally you want the shot perfect out of the camera, but if it isn’t, feel free to crop it to any size and shape you want. If you aren’t going to print it, there is no reason for it to be a 4×6 or other ratio as it came out of your camera. Don’t be afraid to crop an image down to clean it up. It’s all about creating a nice photo.

For those of you with a DSLR or a smarter point-and-shoot camera, you can open up the aperture wide (smaller number) to throw the cluttered background out of focus. This is a more advanced technique better saved for a later post.

JustTheirDad - Photo Blurry Background

Now for your part… Actively take a week after each post to practice the new technique.  It will quickly become part of your normal procedure and “muscle memory”. Your pictures will improve but you won’t have to think about every rule individually. Post some shots where you have applied the simplification technique to improve your shots.

Stay tuned for the next tip in this series.

Or view the entire series of Photo Tips on the Photo Tips page.

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Jun23
2011
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Review – KinderGlo Nightlights

KinderGlo Night Lights

JustTheirDad - Easter Baskets with KinderGlo Night Lights A really smart Easter Bunny visits our house. This year he brought our kids KinderGlo Quarter Moon Night Lights (affiliate link) and they are a huge hit with the kids and as parents, we love them. The KinderGlo lights come in several shapes (affiliate link), but we the Easter Bunny got the Quarter Moon style for our kids. I wasn’t sure about spending $25 for them, but it was worth every penny. KinderGlo Night LightsA few great features:

  • These lights never get hot–they have little LED lights in them that stay very cool.
  • The charging base is simple enough for the kids to put the light on without help from Mommy and Daddy. The light works on or off the base.
  • Rechargeable–no changing batteries.
  • There is only one simple button on the bottom so the kids can easily turn it on.
  • Press the button and the light comes on and fades slowly between several colors.
  • Each press of the button changes the color. After 5 presses the light turns off.
  • The light automatically shuts off after 30 minutes so the battery doesn’t run all night.
  • The battery lasts for days.
  • Hold the button for several seconds and the light stays on indefinitely.

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Snuggle with the light, or set it on the base to light the room. The light goes off automatically, but if the kids wake in the middle of the night, they hit the button and the soothing light comforts them back to sleep.

This is a common scene in our house. The kids grab their moons, snuggle up to them, and drift off to dreamland. The plastic is firm so it doesn’t smash or collapse, but is still snuggleable soft. Our kids take their KinderGlo lights everywhere. They took them on vacation to California. They take them in the car when we go to Grandma’s house and turn them on for the drive home. They take them when we go camping. They really love them. Sometimes I wish we would have gotten one for our 1-year-old. If we turn it on for her, she smiles at the little moon, watches the colors, and giggles. She loves it, too.

The KinderGlo lights are very well-built and designed with kids in mind. They are tough enough to put up with a lot of play and normal kid abuse. Many of the other characters–dinosaurs, bears, hippos, elephants, and more–are cute, but we really like the moon. It has a fun little handle and sometimes I even find the kids sleeping with the moon around their arm. You can buy the KinderGlo lights here. I highly recommend them, especially if your child is a little nervous of the dark like my kids are.

 

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Jun21
2011
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Death by Campfire Goodies

As a family, we camp a lot. I really mean a LOT. Sometimes we are away 3 or 4 weekends a month in the summer. Last year in July we were only home for 7 days. Yeah, we camp a lot.

We’ve evolved a tradition of sitting around the campfire roasting unhealthy, but delicious fare. We started out small with the occasional marshmallow, s’more, or hot-dog. Then we started roasting a LOT of hot dogs and trying various mustards and other condiments. Now we sometimes eat 8 or 10 marshmallows each and 4 to 6 hot-dogs, or more in a night. It’s delicious, but it is terrible for my waistline and cholesterol level.

Last year we got a little creative with our campfire treats and wrapped our hot-dogs in bacon. A complete success! Then we thought: “Why do we need the hot-dog?” and started roasting bacon alone. Delicious! Bacon is now a staple in the trailer.

JustTheirDad - Bacon-wrapped marshmallowOn the trip we took last week, we took our insanities and cholesterol to a new level. It started when I wrapped a marshmallow in bacon. That’s right: bacon-wrapped marshmallows. Fat, sodium, and sugar! If you think about it, bacon and maple syrup is pretty popular, so it’s not that big of a stretch. And Denny’s has that bacon ice-cream sundae thing. So why not?

In fact, it was absolutely tasty! Cook the bacon first and after it cools a bit, wrap it around the marshmallow then back into the coals for a bit of marshmallow toasting. I tried roasting the two separate then wrapped the marshmallow and ate it. It tasted about the same, but lacked a bit of the wrapped and roasted flare and the bacon fat dripping all over the marshmallow.

Another discovery from last year was a bit of a fluke. My uncle brought some glazed donuts for desert, but brought about 3 dozen too many. A day or two or three later we tried warming them over the fire. AMBROSIA! Better than a donut fresh out of the fryer.

Not to be outdone by last year’s antics, this year we wrapped the donut in bacon. Purely delightful. Cook the bacon at least half-way first, then wrap the donut and finish cooking. I found that donuts should be cooked over hot coals and turned pretty quickly. The glaze bubbles and melts and if you don’t turn it fast, it all drips off. Turn it fast and the glaze carmelizes and the donut warms through. When it cools, the glaze is a little crunchy and the donut deliciously warmed.

I’m salivating.

We tried a couple other new adventures on this trip. Bacon wrapped string cheese seemed a little too normal to me, so I skipped it. I thought the bacon wrapped apple wedges held promise, but I was a bit disappointed. The apples lacked flavor compared to the bacon and got drowned out.

JustTheirDad - Bacon-wrapped AsparagusThe final stroke of genius came from my aunt Brenda: bacon-wrapped asparagus. It took a few tries to work out the technique. We tried spearing the asparagus with the roasting sticks, but it tended to split out and break off and we ended up with a mass of wrapped bacon and pieces of asparagus that didn’t cook evenly.

JustTheirDad - Bacon-wrapped Asparagus over the campfire

Finally we settled on the proper technique. First wrap two spears of asparagus tightly with 2 or 3 strips of bacon–just enough to cover the asparagus with a single layer of bacon–then stick the roasters through the bacon and between the spears. If you roast until the bacon is done the asparagus is done to perfection. Let cool a bit then chow down. (Apologies for the bad photo quality below. It was just my phone and it was getting dark.)

JustTheirDad - Bacon-wrapped Asparagus over the campfire

Of all the newly discovered treats, my favorite is the roasted donuts (with or without bacon) and the bacon-wrapped asparagus. Bacon, donuts, and asparagus will be permanently on the packing list. Forget the hot dogs and plain marshmallows.

For the next trip, we are going to try to make s’mores with donut holes. We don’t need no stinkin’ marshmallows. We’re also considering bacon-wrapped corn on the cob. I think zucchini spears would also work out nicely.

 

Your turn. I know some of it sounds a little weird, but I bet you’d like the marshmallows and bacon. Everyone in camp (who tried it) was surprised at how good it was. Anyone would like the asparagus. AND… I need some more ideas. Tell me what else we should try to wrap in bacon. Or something else. Something new. Something original. Something you don’t dare try yourself, but we probably will. Leave your ideas in the comments.

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Jun16
2011
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Our Weekly Visitor

It happens every Tuesday morning. We keep a careful ear open. Listening. Waiting. Ready to spring at the slightest hint that he might be coming. That it might be time. The kids get so upset if they miss it. They can’t miss it. They wait all week.

JustTheirDad - Kids in excited anticipationRarely do I get to see the kids more excited than Tuesday morning when he makes his way down the road. They hear him coming and take off for the front door in a screaming panic. They rush out to the front walk in their jammies and bare feet. Ears are pricked. Straining. Listening. Eyes darting back and forth. “Is he coming?” “Is he here.” they squeal!

JustTheirDad - Kids in excited anticipation

Then they see it. The big grungy beast turns the corner and lumbers down the road. “He’s here!” The excitement in their squeals is palpable. He stops in front of our house. They hold their breath. The air is thick with anticipation. They are about to burst.

Then it happens. The beast’s arm drops and the hand wraps around it’s quarry. With a thundering rumble it lifts it’s catch and dumps the contents down inside of itself.

The tension breaks. The kids erupt! They scream! They cheer! They wave their arms and jump around. The garbage man is finally here!

JustTheirDad - Kids and the Garbage Man

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Yes, the Garbage Man. I wouldn’t believe it if I hadn’t seen it myself, but my kids go positively nuts when the garbage man arrives. He surely thinks my kids are utterly neglected if the best part of their week is watching the garbage truck pick up their trash, but he is a good sport. He waves. He honks. He roars the engine.

JustTheirDad - Kids and the Garbage Man

Oh, to be a child and marvel in things the rest of us take for granted and look down upon.

To see young kids so excited over such a thing may not seem too terribly strange, but I have to wonder what Mr. Garbage Man thinks about Daddy standing there taking pictures of him dumping the trash. He probably thinks we are all a bunch of fruitcakes.

P.S. The garbage man came a little later this time and the kids were already dressed and outside playing. No jammies in these pictures.

P.P.S Notice how the pictures in this post Tell The Story. The first pictures show kids in obvious anticipation of something. The second set shows kids so excited to see the garbage man.

What crazy things set your kids off? Let me know in the comments. I love to know you stopped by.

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Jun13
2011
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How Monsters Cry

I’m away camping with the family this weekend and I have excruciatingly limited Internet access. So here’s a short one for today.

Tonight as we were getting the kids ready for bed in the trailer, Corbin asked me if I wanted to know how monsters cry. Of course I said yes.

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I’m gonna have to talk to aunt Nikki and see what this us all about.

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Jun10
2011
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Friday Photo Tip – Fill The Frame

This Photo Tip is part of a series of photo tips. View the entire list on the Photo Tips page.

Fill The Frame

This is an easy one but gets people all the time. If you are guilty of this, fix it and the improvement to your photos will huge.

Filling the frame is closely related to Telling a Story. You want the subject to stand out and be the important part of the photo. When you fill the frame, you put the important parts of the photo where they belong, which clarifies the story.

Take a look at the following photo. (Hope Wes doesn’t mind me picking on his photo.)

JustTheirDad - Family Picture - Bad Framing

Too often people put the subject’s head(s) in the center of the frame and pull the trigger. The result is a picture like you see above. It’s a great family picture–way cute–but I’m sure all those trees aren’t members of the family. The trees have nothing to do with the picture other than a pleasant setting. The space wasted on the trees could be filled with more of the subject. If the camera is aimed a little lower so that the subject’s heads are near the top of the frame, we could see more family and less tree.

Now look at this shot:

JustTheirDad - Belle and Girl in Disneyland - Bad FramingAdorable, right? It could be better if it is framed tighter:

JustTheirDad - Belle and Girl in Disneyland - Good FrameMuch better. See how the simple change in frame improves the shot? The focus is on the subject and the distracting elements are gone. The heads aren’t right in the center of the photo, the entire subject fills the frame.

Here are a few more examples from our recent California vacation.

JustTheirDad - Pinocho and boy - bad framing JustTheirDad - Pinocho and boy - Good Framing

JustTheirDad - Ariel and Girl - Bad Framing JustTheirDad - Ariel and Girl - Good Framing

JustTheirDad - Queen of Hearts and boy - Bad Framing JustTheirDad - Queen of Hearts and boy - Good Framing

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Sometimes you need the background around the subject to tell the story. If the photo loses something when it is framed tighter, then keep the shot wider. If not, fill the frame. Usually family portraits or group pictures are not meant to tell much of a story and need little background. Be sure to fill the frame for posed formal group photos unless the background says something about the photo.

Note: I’m not saying that these photos are prize-winning shots, but the change in framing makes an obvious improvement.

 

Your Turn

You have another week. Get out there with your camera and try to fill the frame with every shot. Put the entire subject in your frame, don’t put their head right in the middle. Post a link to your shots in the comments.

Stay tuned for the next tip in this series: Simplify

Or view the entire series of Photo Tips on the Photo Tips page.

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Jun08
2011
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Just Say Firetruck

For Wordless Wednesday, I’m going to pull out this YouTube video of Jayci that makes me belly laugh every time I watch it. A couple of years ago we were sitting on Pier 39 in San Francisco and Jayci saw a firetruck. She never said it right, but this hilarious video shows her trying.

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You have to admit, that’s funny! Is there any words your kids got embarrassingly wrong when they were young? Let me know what your thoughts below.

 

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Jun06
2011
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I’m Coming Out

Remember: If you like JustTheirDad, please go “like” the JustTheirDad Facebook Page.

The time has come. Time to come out of the closet. I have to open up. I have to admit it. I have to let the world in. So here goes:

I’m…

Well…

A mommy blogger…

It’s true. I’m a daddy with a mommy blog.

I’ve been working on this blog for a while and I’ve really enjoyed writing for a few friends and family (mostly) about my kids and my life. I find it gratifying enough to be worth my time. Reviews have been good, so it is time to share with the world. Time to let everyone know.

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While I write partly as a journal of sorts for my kids, bloggers always hope that others find entertainment in their words. So I want to share this with everyone. It’s time to make this blog popular, so I’m glad you stopped by. Give me a chance to prove that it is worth your time. Take a look at some posts. I’ve got 3 crazy kids that offer a lot of material, and I’ll keep you entertained.

First, go learn about My Kids and then peek into why I’m JustTheirDad and why I decided to become a mommy blogger. If that doesn’t convince you that it’s worth staying around, check out The Easter Conundrum, or The Morning Crasher. I’ve been told that the Life Lessons from my Kids is a great post. I like the story about our California trip. Check out this cute story about how my daughter Jayci designed my logo, or watch this funny video to find out why you make my son Corbin sad. This scary scene I woke up to in the middle of the night will surprise you.

Keep an eye on my Photo Tips page to learn how to use your camera to take better pictures of your kids and family (or anything, really.)

That should convince you to stick around. So, hop over to my Facebook Page and “like” it to get updates on what’s going on around here, funny things my kids say, and new posts. If you tweet, follow me on twitter. Or grab my feed for your news reader. For a weekly update in email and other goodies, subscribe to my newsletter.

Feel free to share this page with your friends. If you like a post, share it on Facebook or twitter. A great way to let your friends know you like JustTheirDad is to hit the “like” button on the top right of this page near the Facebook and Twitter buttons (but don’t forget to like the JustTheirDad Facebook page to get news and updates). Help me come out of the closet!

Oh, and I love Comments. I like to know who is around and what you are thinking, good or bad?

So, visit Often. Enjoy Thoroughly. Comment Regularly.

Thanks for stopping by! Let me know what you think! I want to hear it.

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Jun05
2011
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13 Hours Will Give You Such A Pain in the…

Road Trip!

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Road Trip

This year we decided to take the kids on a surprise vacation to Disneyland. To save a little money we skipped the airplane and drove. 13 hours can’t be that bad.

As it turns out, 13 hours in the car is very different from 13 hours, say, sleeping, or getting a massage. I like a good road trip but 13 hours with a 1-, 3-, and 5-year-old doesn’t even resemble a good road trip. Whoever said it’s about the journey not the destination didn’t have 3 kids in the backseat. Screw the journey–come on destination.

In a brief spark of rational thought, we split the trip into 2 days: 7 hours driving on day one, a night in Vegas, then a final 6 hours in the car the next day. According to Google Maps, the drive should actually take 11 or 12 hours, but anyone who has traveled with kids knows that Google Maps calculations need a 20-30% increase in drive time if children are involved. Google should offer a “Traveling With Children” checkbox that automatically accounts for food stops, potty breaks, whining fits, and stop-that-#$*%-[insertAnnoyingActivityHere]-right-this-second-or-I-swear-I-will-pull-this-car-over-and-leave-you-on-the-side-of-the-freeway threats.

So This Is Disneyland…

In our rush to get on the road, we didn’t have time to get Corbin showered, so Cami told him he could shower at the hotel in Las Vegas. He was so excited. The entire drive he reminded us repeatedly that he would get to shower at the hotel, so he was a little disappointed when we woke up late the next morning and didn’t have time for his shower. We bribed him back to bliss with further promises of hotel showers in California. For the remaining 6 hours, he wouldn’t let us forget it.

I started to wonder why I wasted money on Disneyland. I should have reserved a few nights in hotels around town and let them try out all the bath facilities. I could find them a floating Mickey Mouse toy to shower with, too! “Hey kids, this is Disneyland! Woohoo! Here’s Mickey! *Squeaky Squeaky* Now take your clothes off.”

On the plus side, I learned something interesting about Halle on the drive. As it turns out, her spitfire personality comes from more than her red hair. In fact, she is actually possessed by demons. She does an amazing Linda Blair impersonation. At random intervals we get crazy screams, growls, and hissing. Ahhhhhh! Grrrrrr! Arrrrggggghhhshhhlsjlsfj! And other noises I can’t spell.

Day One

Day one went something like this: “I need a snack.” “Mommy, I’m hungry.” Ahhhhhh! “I wanna watch a movie.” “I’m still hungry.” Grrrrrrrrr! “I need another snack.” “Are we there yet?” “I don’t like this movie.” Shriek! “I want a different movie.” “Do I get to shower in Las Begas?” “I dropped my coloring book. Mommy, pick up my coloring book.” *Ding Ding Ding* BUCKLE PASSENGER flashing on the dashboard. “Tattletale!” Halle’s head slowly rotates a full 360 degrees. “I gotta pee! It’s an emergency! I can’t hold it!” Pull over, open both passenger-side doors as the kids hide between the doors to pee on the ground. And on the car. And on Mommy. Then they walk in their fresh pee-mud puddle. “I dropped my pencil.” Hissssss! Screech! Spit! “Mommy, get my pencil.” *Ding Ding Ding* BUCKLE PASSENGER. “Shutup tattletale!” “I’m hungry!” “I get to shower in Las Begas!” Arrrrggggghhhshhhlsjlsfj!

Repeat 17 times.

Entertain Me Please

About 3 hours from Las Vegas, I asked Cami to read to me on my Nook Color (affiliate link)(I lOVE my Nook Color) from the blogs I follow . Between constant interruptions from the kids, she eventually finished with my feeds and started reading one of her favorite mommy blogs. 6 hours into a 7 hour drive she read me this post about sitting too long, resulting in a blood clot, pulmonary embolism, and death. How do you spell irony?

A bit off topic, I’m reminded of a night I stayed up into the early morning hours agonizing over an excruciating toothache. As it started to take hold, I grabbed the Tylenol and soon afterward chased it with some Advil. It didn’t touch the pain. I laid in bed trying to forget my misery and turned on Doctor G. Medical Examiner. I watched with interest as she worked out the mysterious death of a guy about my age. In desperation I finally dove into the medicine cabinet and located some lortab from a recent surgery. Down it went. I returned to Doctor G. as she explained the cause of death: a drug cocktail of lortab, acetaminophen, and a couple other drugs. Really? You couldn’t solve this mystery an hour ago? Before I took the lortab?

To alleviate any concerns, I didn’t die from my drug cocktail or the toothache, and I arrived in Las Vegas with no signs of a blood clot.

The kids finally fell asleep a couple of hours before we reached our Vegas hotel.

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Day Two

The next morning we played a rousing game of musical food at IHOP. It’s a fun game. Here’s how you play:

The kids order something they don’t like and then after some whining, mommy gives up half of her food to them–the baby gets the other half. The children pass handfuls of food back and forth and drop half of it on the floor. Dad orders some weird dish with avocados, peanut butter, and kumquats that nobody else will eat. Mom tries to find a few morsels from the kid’s meals to satisfy her. Then dad stuffs himself with any food left on the table. (I paid $60 for that food!) For bonus points, order a whole gallon of orange juice for the kids and then find out that, contrary to what they said, they don’t like orange juice. Dad then drinks the gallon of OJ to finish off the meal.

A quick visit to the restroom gets us on our way. I really don’t know why we bother–they will have to pee again just as we hit the on-ramp. Corbin went in the stall and did his thing and I used the “Daddy Potty”. As I finished, I turned to see Corbin nearly fall on his face as he scrambled out of the stall with his pants around his ankles. He was concerned that I would flush before he got to watch the waterfall (he calls it a waterfadle).

For a quick rundown of the drive on day 2, see Day 1, and repeat 15 times.

In truth, the kids were really good, all things considered, but a long road trip with kids is not the most fun thing I can think of to do. At least I get to drive instead of deal with the kids.

 

Can you relate to a road trip with kids? Share your story in the comments.

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Jun03
2011
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Friday Photo Tip – Tell A Story

As a (former) photographer, I learned a lot of tips and tricks to improve the photos you take of your kids and family. This post is the first in a series of photo tips on how to better use your camera to capture the moments in your life. The entire series is found on my Photo Tips page.

What’s Your Story?

What is the purpose of taking a picture (other than those boring mug-shot style family photos)? When you are out with your kids vacationing, playing, camping, or even hanging out at home, and you take a picture, you do it for one reason: to tell a story.

Each time you raise the camera to your eye, take a second to think about the story you are about to capture and make some decisions about how you can frame the shot and what to include in the frame to best convey that story. It’s not always possible to put a lot of thought into every shot, but get in the habit of planning the story when you can and soon it will become part of your “muscle memory”. It will just happen.

What is the story here?JustTheirDad - Corbin in Wagon

Yeah, who knows, right? It’s a boy in his jammies in a wagon. Look at this one:

JustTheirDad - Corbin Going to SurgeryNow it is clear. The doctor pulling him off down the hall away from what is probably a parent behind the camera. Anyone who has sent a child off for surgery knows what’s going on here.

Now try this one. What’s the story? While in some ways it isn’t the best photo I have ever taken, this is one of my favorite “story” shots.

JustTheirDad - Alyssa Birthday

No question what the story is here. First Birthday. Mommy. Daughter. Blowing out the first candle. It’s all there.

Here’s another good story:

JustTheirDad - Fishing with the kids

Besides the fishing pole, the expression on her face shows the surprise as she watches a fish take her line. If you looked a little longer, you might realize that she is at a fish farm with a hundred other people fishing in the background.

You don’t always have to tell the whole story. Sometimes it’s enough to let the viewers in on the important points of the story and leave the rest for imagination. Take this, for example:

JustTheirDad - Kids at the beach

You don’t need to know that my family was on vacation in California and went to the beach where the kids played in the sand and Corbin got completely covered. The story need not be that personal. The story behind this picture is more simple. The blue sky and sunshine tell you it is a nice sunny day. His shirt is off and sand is everywhere, so you might assume he is at the beach (though a shot with some beach or ocean in the background would have solidified that point). It leaves you wondering a few details, but gives you enough information to put a story together.

When you tell the story, consider the audience. Not every photo needs every detail of the story if the audience already knows part of it. A universal photo tells a story that anyone can understand. Strive for a universal message, but if the audience is only your family or those “in the know”, it’s okay to tell the story just for their benefit.

Not every picture will tell everything, but shoot a lot and look for those few gems that include all the right elements to tell the story. Choose those to share with the world. A good test: say goodbye to the captions. If people will know what’s going on without words, you’ve got a winner!

Your Turn

For the next week, take your camera with you wherever you go and think about the stories you see happening around you. Capture those stories and post a link to the picture in the comments for this post. I prefer new pictures you took after you read this post, but if you have an exceptional story-telling photo or discovered a gem in your old photos on a hard-drive somewhere, I’d love to see it.

 

Stay tuned for the next post in this series: Fill The Frame

Or view the entire series of Photo Tips on the Photo Tips page.

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